Exhibits: Scotiabank Contact Photography Festival

A picture is worth 1000 words and Scotiabank's Contact Photography Festival has led me to explore that expression further. I must say the exhibits I got to check out were pretty cool and they've inspired me to pick up my camera and start snapping photos everywhere I go. I won't bore you with 1000 words, I'll just let the pictures speak for themselves....

SYNEDOCHE BLANK- Nancy Da Costa, Mo Govindji, Zach Hertzman

Smile Booth @ Mango Studios

THE VERSTS- Marina Black

PANDORA - Tina Folmeg, Stephanie Schranz

Inspired by integrated mythologies, this visual exploration focuses on potent feminine imagery taken from history.Medusa, Oracle, Gypsy

THE RAPE OF AFRICA- David LaChapelle

LaChapelle's extravagant take on Sandro Botticelli's Venus and Mars. This piece reflects the effects of war, mining and mass marketing on Africa.

For More Info Visit http://scotiabankcontactphoto.com

VIDEO: Adriana Lima For Vogue Espana

I saw this post on Fashion Nights and I just had to share...

I love seeing women grow and evolve in life... Adriana Lima and her hubby are sooo cute!

What do you think...

This is sooo cute!

“Whether you think that you can, or that you can't, you are usually right.” --- Henry Ford

Via Toronto Girl Chronicles

I MISS MUSIC: Bonnie Tyler - Total Eclipse of the Heart

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CHRISETTE MICHELE: It's Not Serious, It's Just Hair!

While I was browsing Vibe.com I came across a candid interview featuring Chrisette Michele about her decision to cut off all her hair. Her confidence is inspiring and I'm sure you will all agree with me when I say that she looks great with a shaved head. It seems as if many celebrities are making the bold decision to bare it all, just recently Janet Jackson was spotted with a shorter do aswell. Then we have some who are partial to the movement such as Cassie, Mel. B, Will and Jada Smith's daughter Willow etc.

The article "It's Not That Serious, It's Just Hair" dives into Chrisette's thoughts about why she chose to let it all go:

The turning point for me to shave my head was when I was out on tour. I had some pieces glued into my head because I didn’t want to dye my own hair, and the glued on piece would not come out of my head so I said I’m shaving my head because this is ridiculous. This does not make me Black. This does not make me a great singer; this makes me have a piece of hair stuck to my head and I was like, "I’m done, I can’t do this anymore." So I decided I wanted to find beauty in a different way without doing something that was so damaging to something that was precious to me, which is my hair. I could have gotten it out but I said, "No, I’m just gonna shave it off."

Her advice to all women is to keep it simple! and further explains that she stays humble by remembering that her hair does not make her black, a prettier woman or a great singer.

I say... This article hit me hard as I know it may strike a cord with some of you. I make a committment to do my hair often and it does make me feel good when I leave the salon- but then I think, am I hiding behind my hair? I have to admit I wouldn't have the courage to shave it all off like Chrisette- but I do admire her reasons behind what she did!

Do you think some women hide behind their hair? and What do you think of this trend of shaving it all off and rocking a shorter do?

I'm anxious to hear your thoughts...

Pauleanna

I MISS MUSIC: At Last

"I believe when you speak things into existence, it can actually manifest... Singing it makes it a lot faster"

I couldn't agree more.

What do you think of her rendition of the song? I wonder what Ms. Etta James would think???

Well done B-Rocka! But no one can do it quite like Etta...

My Words...

Name: Shannae Ingleton

Age: 29

Zodiac: Pisces (My favorite sign - obvi)

I say: "Money Insecurity is the root of all evil"

A friend and I had a discussion this weekend and the quote "Money is the root of all evil" came up in conversation.  We were debating back and forth and came to the realization that that quote isn't entirely true. We think that most terrible things that are said and done, stem in some way, shape or form from insecurity and it held true for every example that we came up with.  Do you agree?

I got a comment saying that this post wasn't positive, but I have to disagree.  Maybe I wasn't clear enough when I initially posted, but the purpose of posting this was to reinforce the importance of believing in yourself and being secure with you are and where you are going. Because if you aren't it can cause you to do things that you aren't proud of.  (i.e. The girl that hates her BF's ex-girlfriend for no reason, or the athlete that despises their opponent, or the coworker that smiles in your face but then reports you to The Boss.  If those people were secure in themselves, their lives, their jobs, their relationships, they wouldn't have time or energy to do such things).

I'd love to know your thoughts on this. Shannae :)
 

New Music: My Love Will Stay the Same by Jazmine Sullivan

She's back!!!!!!! And so far so good... Some feel good music for y'all on a Monday morning.

SMILE!

Enjoy!

LaToya


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New Video: Rihanna - Te Amo

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New Music: Tired - Kelly Price

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TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT!

Hey Ladies!

Our Sex & The City Party is right around the corner and let me tell you, we are soooo excited! We’ve sold over 50% of the tickets already, so this event is going to be a definite sell out. Tickets can be purchased at  www.sjpyyz.eventbrite.com

I’ve been getting a lot of questions about the BIG DAY so I want to answer them here:

WHAT COMES WITH THE TICKET?
ALL ticket holders get a Cineplex Odeon movie ticket so that you can watch SATC2 anytime after the event! Ticket holders also get a complimentary “Carrie Cosmo”, a giftbag stuffed with items from our Beauty, Fragrance and Beverage Sponsors and you get to party AND SHOP all night with the hottest girls (and guys) that this city has to offer!

WHERE IS IT?
The Secret Location has been revealed! It is going to be at 99 Sudbury

IS THIS EVENT ON FACEBOOK? 
Yes indeed! RSVP Here

WHAT IS THIS “DATING” THING ALL ABOUT?
First off, the “dating” thing is optional (Non-Single girls are welcome!) but we are adding a unique “dating” element to the party in celebration of the single lives that our favorite four girls lived in the Big Apple!


"In Toronto (YYZ), a city with over 5 million people and more than 1 million single men, there's bound to be that special one for you... Do you know the perfect guy, but you only see them as a friend and you know they'd treat their special girl like a queen? So do I! So does She!!! So bring that fantastic eligible man to our SATC party. I'll bring mine, she'll bring hers and it will be a party... Sex in the City style!”

Yes, you read right, SINGLE MEN COME FOR FREE. Sorry guys, no gift bag, or movie ticket for you, but you get to party free of charge with a bevy of beauties!

WHAT WILL HAPPEN AT THE EVENT?
There will be tonnes of girls in cute “Carrie Style” cocktail dresses, dancing, mixing, mingling, sipping cocktails, getting pampered and shopping amongst several SATC themed vendors. We've been posting about the vendors on the blog. Check them out here!

WHAT’S THE DRESS CODE?
 Carrie Cocktail Dress Chic and you can get outfitted "Carrie Style" by The Red Carpet Room!

WHERE CAN I GET TICKETS?
Tickets are available online at sjpyyz.eventbrite.com and tickets will be available for purchase at Fashionably Yours Designer Consignment Boutique early next week.

WHAT IF I WANT TO BE A VENDOR?
If you have a cool product or service that you would like to sell at the event contact me directly :)

If you have more questions or would like further info, feel free to contact me directly via Facebook or by emailing me at shannae@ilovewhatwomenwant.com

I can't wait!! :)

CLICK ON THE PICTURE TO GET YOUR TICKET NOW!

Music: Dido "Everything to Lose"

Our friends at Sony were kind enough to send over 100s of copies of the SATC2 Movie Soundtrack and I've been listening to it all day long!

Check out this track from Dido (one of my faves) - its on the soundrtrack... You have to go out and get it if you haven't already!

Shay
xo

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Sarah Jessica Parker Killed it... #WWWow (@sjpheartsyyz)

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SJP looks amazing in this dress!! Now if only I can work it like her on Thursday!!

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What Women Want welcomes @HeyDoYou to our Sex & The City Cocktail Party!!

Sex and the City is all about fashion and accessories! HeyDoYou, the lifestyle and street fashion blog for the cute, clever and connected is thrilled to be showcasing the latest and greatest from the sunshine state CALIFORNIA! West coast trends in accessories, beauty and fashion will be available for sale at our booth. Yvonne will be bringing goodies straight from LA to TO for the SJP YYZ party this Thursday! What to expect? Carrie's huge flower, apple necklace, Galiano newsprint dress, Unique jewelry, bags, sunglasses and accessories that take your outfit from 'meh' to 'woah' and the cutest trinkets to make your swoon. We also have 20 copies of the Carrie Diaries available! Please stop by and say hello - just look for the silver balloons!!

I am sooooooooooooooooooooo excited to see Yvonne! She's one of my besties and she's always the life of the party... Plus she'll have all sorts of stuff from La La Land in towe!

Can't wait to see her!!
  

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I have the best trainer in the WORLD (@LyzabethLopez)! And she's excited to meet YOU at our SEX & The City Cocktail Party!

I couldn't have a SATC party with the beautiful miss Lyzabeth Lopez!! She's made such a difference in the lives of so many wonderful ladies! You could be next! Come and meet her at our SATC party in  TWO DAYS!!


Shay xo

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Just TWO days left until our Sex & The City Party!!! Pls RT

If you don't have your ticket yet, get it online, or pick it up at Fashionably Yours.  Any other questions?  Just call me!

Oh yah, and men get to come for FREEEE!

This is going to be a night to remember!

Shannae
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New Video: Rihanna "Rockstar 101" Featuring Slash

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Mind over matter :)

Seeing beyond Vision loss...


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Follow @PauleannaReid...

I am so blessed to have such wonderful and talented people that work with me.

Most of you know Pauleanna... Not only does she make most of the literary contributions to the blog, she's a talented Author, Song writer, Sex & Relationship Blogger and she's currently writing a non-fiction novel. 

To learn more about what she does... follow her on Twitter! 

Shay xo

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Happiness...

I posted this last year and thought that everyone needed a little friendly reminder - about happiness...

Be Happy by Monica Sheehan...

Show up.

Follow your heart.

Stay inspired.

Stop being a victim.

Do things you're good at.

Love your work.

Get a new perspective.

Have a sense of wonder.

Don't isolate.

Find people you love.

Set goals.

Finish what you started.

Help others.

Do a one day news fast.

Dance.

Pamper yourself.

Face your fears.

Go to a museum.

Any decision is better than no decision.

Exercise.

Limit Television.

Listen to music.

Get in touch with nature.

Lighten up.

Have a moral compass.

Get a good night's sleep.

Read books.

Buy yourself flowers.

Reach out.

Set up a realistic schedule.

Don't compare yourself to others.

Live in the moment.

Don't beat up yourself.

Accept that life has its ups and downs.

Every night reflect on the good things about your day.

Be open to new ideas.

Believe in yourself.

Be kind.

Let people know how special they are.

Be honest with yourself.

Don't focus on negative thoughts.

Focus on creating what you desire.

Make time just to have fun.

Say thank you to the people who teach you, support your, encourage you and get you a cup of coffee.

Don't forget money doesn't buy you happiness.

Give away what you don't need to someone who does.

Value who you are right now.

Be part of a community.

Find a common ground.

Keep the romance in your life.

Make a gratitude list.

Love your Mother Earth.

Do your best.

Don't lose hope (you never know what tomorrow will bring).

Keep learning.

Want what you have.

Believe in something bigger than yourself.

Stay close to friends and family.

Be true to yourself.

Shay

*smiling from ear to ear*

xoxo

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New Music: Tired - Kelly Price

Very REAL song! I'm sure that all of us can relate some way some how...

Stay blessed ladies!

LaToya
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What Women Want Welcomes Aligator Pear to our Sex & The City Cocktail Party!

Laura Thipphawong is the Owner and award winning Executive Chef of Alligator Pear Catering. What first started out as a personal chef service providing quality and customized meals to people on the go has evolved into a full sized catering company specializing providing memorable, customer oriented culinary experiences for any event. 

I first found out about Laura's amazing personal chef service.  As a person who is always busy and on the go, I was so excited to find out that her company prepares and delivers customized meals to you for the wonderful cost of $20/day (That's breakfast, lunch AND dinner!). A few of my friends have used her and she came highly recommended so it was a no-brainer to include her in our upcoming Sex & The City Party as one of our unique vendors.

Whether you work from home like Carrie, your a globe Trotter like Samantha or a busy professional like Miranda, you could definitely use this service.  And if you throw amazing dinner parties like Charlotte, look no further than Aligator Pear!

Check out some gorgeous shots of her wonderful creations below;

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Shay
xo

Drew Barrymore's Words...

Name: Drew Barrymore


Age: 35


Zodiac: Pisces (shes three days after meeee!)

Drew said:  "I want people to love me, but it's not going to hurt me if they don't."

I say: I really wish that I was the same.  While, I don't care for everyone to love me (obvi), it really does hurt sometimes when you know someone doesn't like you and they don't really have a good reason.  I am working on "not caring" about those situations, but I'm not a robot and it does hurt!

Can anyone relate?

PS - I'm sure I've said it a gillion times on this blog but Drew Barrymore has been such a huge inspiration to me... Her story and beautiful evolution make me love her to bits and pieces and I truly hope to meet her one day!

Shay
xo

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BOOKS: WWW Recommends The Tipping Point By: Malcolm Gladwell

“How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference” is the biggest lesson that this fascinating book called The Tipping Point has to offer. The introduction alone caught my attention as Gladwell’s words slowly started to make sense. I delved deeper into his thoughts and soon became addicted to the way he taught me how to change the way I transpire my ideas.

THE TIPPING POINT is another term for that magical moment when change occurs- when a simple idea explodes into a social epidemic. For example, when an unknown author suddenly becomes a national best seller through word of mouth, or when a particular article of clothing comes back into style after 10 years of collecting dust on store shelves.

It's amazing how this book is able to dissect the reasons why a "turning point" happends and when you navigate your way through the page turning case studies, you will see exactly what I mean. I don’t have to tell you how intelligent Gladwell’s writing is because his work speaks for itself , but I do want to express to you that I highly recommend this book!

HAPPY READING LADIES!

Pauleanna

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Music: Beyonce - "Halo" The Hidden Video...

This was an alternate video treatment to the song "Halo". Do you like the original version or this one??
I kinda like this one, actually!
Shay xo

PS - Did you get your ticket to our May 27th Sex & The City Party yet? If not, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?!?!

New Music: Amerie "Who's Gonna Love You"

The song is kind of "blah" if you ask me... but hey, its Amerie and she's not "blah" at all :)

Do you like the song?

Shay :)
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I really like this dress... A LOT

Sena Cut-out Dress Black

The only thing is that I think u need small boobs for it to look good... Otherwise it just looks like a regular body con dress..

Thoughts?

Shay xo
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New Video: Alexis Jordan - "Happiness"

Never heard of her before today to be honest, but its young, fresh and new and I LIKE!

Do you?

Shay xo
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Beauty: Secret Chemicals in Fragrances Can Kill You?

According to laboratory tests commissioned by the Environmental Working Group, studies have shown that there are 38 secret chemicals which are not listed on 17 major fragrances that are connected with serious health problems.

In the article Secret Chemicals in Fragrances Could Kill You, I learned that American Eagle Seventy Seven, Britney Spears Curious and Chanel Coco are some of the worst offenders- not listing many chemicals on their label.

"Ten sensitizing chemicals associated with allergic reactions such as asthma, wheezing, headaches, and contact dermatitis. Giorgio Armani Acqua Di Gio contained 19 different sensitizing chemicals, more than any other product in the study.

Four hormone-disrupting chemicals linked to a range of health effects including sperm damage, thyroid disruption, and cancer. Halle by Halle Berry, Quicksilver and Jennifer Lopez J. Lo Glow each contained seven different chemicals with the potential to disrupt the hormone system."

This goes to prove that nothing is ever what it seems. We all may love the sexy smell of all of our favourite brands, but most of us are poorly educated on the effects of these products. This is the kind of information that is cut out of advertisements and commercials- so before you purchase your next beauty product, do a little research!

Pauleanna

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Style: The Straw Fedora

With summer just around the corner, ladies it’s time to get your hat game on point. Summer hats are both practical and stylish. We often see models and socialites flaunting new range of summer hats in parties however with the hat trends changing every year the one hat which is the undisputed leader are the straw fedoras. (My personal fav!) This Hat can be worn with everything from destroyed denim & a tank to a ruffled bikini. It is a summer accessory that a true fashionista must have ;-D



xoxo Mz Lucas

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Video: Marina and The Diamonds - "I am not a Robot"

  Love this video and I love this song!!
Shay xo

What Women Want Welcomes Ola Finesse Jewelry to our Sex & The City Cocktail Party!

Canadian Designer Nicola Raynor draws inspiration for OLA FINESSE JEWELRY from Asian contemporary and modern African culture. "After spending years in Japan I wanted to design a high end fashion jewelry line that combined my love for Japanese fashion as well as express my roots from my Caribbean heritage" says Nicola. 

Ola Finesse jewelry is designed to suit the individual. The philosophy behind the brand is to create distinct jewelry to express individual style.

We've worked with Ola Finesse Jewelry several times over the years and we are excited to have her back again! OFJ will be one of the awesome vendors showcasing their collection at our Sex & The City Cocktail Party. Join me in welcoming them!!

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