This is the PERFECT New Years Eve Dress!

Matthew Williamson Silk Georgette Shift Dress

What are you wearing for New Years Eve! I copped the cutest getup on ASOS! I'll be uploading pics when I get back from New York!

xoxo

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My Words... NYC

Name: Shannae

Age: 28

Zodiac: Pisces

I say: I heart New York!!! So i've packed my bags and taken off to my favorite place in the world!  I'll be back in a week and when I return I'll be back with a SURPRISE!

Talk to you guys very soon!

Shay

xo

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STYLE: Rachel by Rachel Roy Collection

L to R: Hematite Spike Necklace $85, Quilted Hobo  $79, Hammered Square Ring $32



L to R: Sleeveless Dress with Beaded Belt $129, Trompe L Oiel Dress $139, Drapey Dress $99

L to R: Lionah bootie $109, Jubilee Boot $179, Izzey Boot $139

Last week we posted on Rachel Roy's beautiful Spring/Summer 2010 collection and it was (obviously) stunning, but I am not sure if you ladies know that she also has a RACHEL by Rachel Roy collection that is sold online and in department stores like Macys.

I'm talking dresses for $100, shoes for about the same and accessories for even less! Shown above are a few of my favorite pieces from the collection, but to check out EVERYTHING - Visit the RACHEL by Rachel Roy Website

Shout outs to Rachel for stunting on everyone after breaking up with Dame!

Shay

xo

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I love this Dress! xo

You already KNOW that I looooooove DVF! This is the Josun Strapless Mini... What do you think??

Shay
xo

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I MISS MUSIC: Tamia - "Officially Missing You"

Tamia - Officially Missing You [D-Li-D]
by Drunken-Li-Dragon

I remember exactly how I was feeling about life at this time... carefree, the world was my oyster... AND how many of you ran out and copped a pair of daisy duke denim shorts, wedge heels, a flowy top with a cute bra to go underneath so you could look like her in the video...

I DID!

I Officially Miss Music like this...

Shay

xo

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Yvonne Kai's words... @heydoyou

Name: Yvonne Kai

Zodiac: Cancer/Gemini Cusp

Yvonne said: "What you want also wants you... Wake up let's go!"

I say: A lot of people don't realize that...

Yvonne is da bomb diggity! You should get to know her better! Follow Yvonne on Twitter!

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Relationship VIDEO: Why Successful Black Women are Single...

A WWW reader Nadine sent this to my facebook inbox...  I have to admit, watching this was kind of depressing, but helped me to understand the Black-Girl-Singlehood issue a lot better...

What are your thoughts...

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New Music: Beyonce: Waiting

I don't know about you ladies, but I'm just not the type of chick who will be "patiently waiting"....

I dunno if that's good or bad, but its just me. ;D

Shay
xo

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New Music: TWEET - “LOVE AGAIN”

Simply Beautiful... and this song sounds like classic "Tweet".

I loved her first album - can't wait to here the one coming out in 2010

What do you think??

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MUSIC: Alicia Keys - Love is my Disease

"When your gone it feels like,

My whole worlds gone with you

I thought love would be my cure

But now it's my disease (my disease)

I try to act mature

But I'm a baby when you leave

How can I ever get used to being without you"

How many of you can relate... Wow.. can I ever!

PS - I think I need to cop this album...

PPS - Considering her controversial relationship with Swiss Beatz, do you think her songs/album are inappropriate?

Shay

xo

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These boots are dope!

I have a pair of Motorcycle boots and all I need now are a pair of nice combat boots... I can see myself rocking these with tights, skinny jeans or a cute skirt... ladies do you like?

Shay
xo

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@TikaSimone's Words...

Name: Tika Simone


Zodiac: Scorpio

Via Twitter Tika said: "Should you support a friend as an artist even if you don't like any of their work...and they suck?"

Via Twitter I said: The best gift that you can give a friend like that is THE TRUTH..

Ladies do you agree??

PS - Follow Tika on Twitter... she's hilarious!

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Happy Holidays Everybody!!!

All the best to you and yours over this Holiday Season from myself and the Ladies of WWW... We are taking a few days off and will be back on Monday...

Shay
xo

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New Music: Beyonce - "Black Culture"

I'm not too big on the song and I highly doubt that its an official release, but it's something new from Beyonce! How could I resist!

Shay
xo

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Christmas Music: Faith Evans -- "O Come all Ye Faithful"

This was voted as one of the top ten R&B Christmas songs of all time... Ladies is it worthy?  I personally like Toni Braxton and Mariah Carey's songs better - but who am I to judge!?

Shay

xo

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Sex and The City 2 Movie Sneak Video!!

One of most loyal readers (Tonya Facey) posted this video on my facebook with the best introduction:

Okay, so I'm kind of anti ANOTHER Sex and the City movie but I couldn't resist! The trailer had me with the opening notes of "Empire State of Mind" and last week I spent a solid hour looking for a vintage "J'Adore Dior" t-shirt and look who's wearing one in the trailer (which means I can't buy one anymore, don't want to bite Carrie's style) - clearly, it's fate. Enjoy!

Thanks T! I had a J'adore Dior Tank in Blue with Yellow writing (although it was fake and I got it for $15) -- But now I want to bring it out of hiding or at least find another one on Ebay!

I don't know about you ladies, but I'm excited!

xo

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My Words...

Name: Shannae

Age: 28

Zodiac: Pisces/Aquarius Cusp

I say: Don't underestimate me. PERIOD

That's all!

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Party for a Wonderful Cause: Kardinal Official Christmas Charity Gala

I'll be ringing in the Holiday Spirit at this event tomorrow!  See you there!

Shay
xo

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Music - Mariah Carey: "All I want for Christmas is YOU!"

Mariah Carey "Merry Christmas" is one of my favorite Holiday Albums... You should get it if you don't have it!!

Christmas is just 3 days away... Can you believe it???

Shay
xo

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Fashion: Rachel Roy Spring/Resort 2010

I loved her when she was married to Dame Dash, and I love her as a designer. Rachel Roy has been doing her thing in the Fashion Industry and is becoming a household name. This year she even had a brief cameo on MTV's The City. Her spring and resort collection is filled with bold punches of colour, tailored jackets and fitted silhouettes. Here are eight of my favourite looks from her collections! To see more visit www.rachelroy.com




Favourite Looks From Spring 2010


Favourite Looks From Resort 2010

Enjoy!

Alyssa
xoxo

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Jada Pinkett's Words...

Name: Jada Pinkett Smith

Age: 38

Zodiac: Virgo

Jada said: “We all think there is a formula, (but) as long as we love our children, that's really the only solid thing I know that works across the board”

I say: One of my biggest fears is failing at motherhood... I feel like with all of the hopes and aspirations that I have for myself, how will I find the time? To me, a strong maternal relationship is paramount. Even moreso than a paternal one. I guess I don't have much to worry about for the time being since I'm single and likely years away from marriage let alone motherhood, yet I find myself thinking hard about it every time the subject comes up... Jada's quote above is promising (because I know I'm great at loving) - but I feel like it takes more than that... Anyway - I'm going to be taking a maternal "leap of faith", if you will, in the New Year and I'm really excited about it. I'll be able to share more details when the time comes, but I feel like if I succeed at this, I'll feel a lot more confident about my ability to succeed in the maternal arena....

Does anybody else feel me???

Love you all

Shannae

xo

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Music: Toni Braxton - "Santa Please"

Cause its Christmas...

Shay
xo

PS - Toni's Christmas albums is one of the best I've ever heard period...

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BOOKS: WWW Recommends The Power of Now

A New York Times Bestseller and part of Oprah’s book club, The Power of Now is a high profile self-help novel that has had a positive impact on my life and has also transformed my way of thinking. The spiritual leader, Eckhart Tolle, writes about finding enlightenment and satisfaction in your life through your own positive energy that lies within you. Below is one of my favourite passages from the book!

“People will often enter into a compulsive pursuit of ego-gratification and things to identify with in order to fill a hole they feel within. So they strive after possessions, money, success, power, recognition, or a special relationship, so that they can feel better about themselves, feel more complete. But even when they attain all these things, they soon find that the hole is still there, that it is bottomless.

As long as the egoic mind is running your life, you cannot truly be at ease; you cannot be at peace or fulfilled except for in brief intervals when you obtained what you wanted or when a craving has just been fulfilled. The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, etc.

Your identity cannot be found in any of these things.”

Not only are his words thought provoking, but his insight on meditation, relationships and ideas towards maintaining a simple lifestyle captivated my attention and connected me with my own present day realities. Personally, I had to read this book twice to really take it in, so don’t worry if you’re not able to finish it before the next book recommendation, because the words are meant to be savoured. I'm looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

Happy Reading Ladies!

Pauleanna

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Brittany Murphy's Words...

Name: Brittany Murphy

Age: 32

Zodiac: Scorpio

Brittany said: "I'd love to be a man for a day, just to see what it's like."

I say: I can just see her saying that... I can't even imagine passing on at her age... May she rest in peace...

My favorite Brittany Moment:




She was brilliant in 8 mile as well... but that scene has stayed etched in my brain since the first time I saw it...

Shay
xo

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All I want for Christmas...

Wow... nearly 365 days have passed since the last time I did this... Its kind of hard to believe...

I've never been big on going out and getting a tonne of gifts during Christmas... for my family and I this time of year is usually one of reflection, getting together and enjoying each other's company. As a matter of fact my dad would never buy my sister and I Christmas gifts, he'd just give us money to go shopping on Boxing Day because thats when all of the deals are anyway!

So here is the list of things on my list for the year... Some of the items have been crossed off the list because I've actually already started!

1. A Yorkie!!! I don't have one yet, BUT I have insider info that the WWW family will be growing with the addition of a four legged friend!

2. A Mac Book Pro! I use a PC, but everyone tells me that a Mac is a blogger MUST HAVE!

3. Anything from Christian Louboutin's Spring 2010 collection (obvi)

4. Braces! I've wanted braces for the past 5 years (my teeth have been taking on a life of their own!) I have just been debating whether I want perfect teeth bad enough to duke it out looking like Ugly Betty for a year or two... I dunno - what do you think??

5. A new flat screen TV! I couldn't resist... I picked one up last week (a 32" Samsung 1080 pixel) and I love it!!

6. Photoshop for Dummies - I spend so much time in front of the damn computer that I should really take the time to learn Photoshop, Flash and HTML... If I could do all of that well, life would be sooooo easy! I might even start a side business! lol

7. I did red lipstick (and I'm lovin it) - I think I'm ready to go for pink lips now... Any suggestions??

8. I need a new DVF! Its been about a year since I've bought from my fave Designer... Right now, my favorite in her collection is this Colida Strapless Printed Dress.

9. Artwork, I moved into a new place this summer and I did a great job at selecting great artwork for the walls.... But there is one wall that is empty and for the life of me I can't find the write wall piece - HELP!! lol

10. I got my first Herve Leger dress this year, and let me tell you, those dresses are as awesome as everyone says they are!! I'm ready for a second one... I really like the tank bandage dress.... Timeless, classic and I can wear a bra with it (Bonus!)

11. So my digital camera decides to just stop working on me... I was sooooo pissed!! So, needless to say, I have to go out and get a new one... I don't wanna spend more than $200 - Anyone have any suggestions??

12. I think this was on my list last year, but who cares!! I need a Leather Chanel Flap Bag before I die...

And last but not least... the best gift to myself will be spending time with...

MY FAMILY!!!!! I can't wait to see them!

Happy Holidays Everybody!

Shay

xo

New Music: Leona Lewis - "Can't Breathe"

I first heard this song while waiting to hear Leona play live last month.... I didn't know what song it was or what it was called but it touched me... I just found the song a few days ago and needless to say its been on repeat... I think a lot of people can identify with this feeling; feeling helpless without someone... I know that I can

Enjoy!

Shay

xo

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Oprah's Words...

Name: Oprah Winfrey

Age: 55

Zodiac: Aquarius

Oprah said: “I don't think you ever stop giving. I really don't. I think it's an on-going process. And it's not just about being able to write a check. It's being able to touch somebody's life.”

I say: I really and truly try and do this every day... And remember; it doesn't have to be something big... Sometimes "the little things" mean the most...

Shannae

xo

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Career Post: What happens if they Google you??

I was browsing on CNN and I came across an article that jumped out at me. It speaks about the consequences of your digital footprint and how the information that you post on social networking sites (ie. facebook, myspace) will affect whether or not you are offered the job.

If you’re currently seeking a new career, finding the perfect interview suit and having an error free resume is the least of your worries. Now more than ever, you should also be concerned about the content that you display online, because employers are now googling before hiring! But, keep in mind that it doesn’t mean you should have absolutely no online presence either, its always best recommended to find a happy medium by displaying useful content and keeping your reputation clean.

“Most employers nowadays hop on Google to search a name as a preliminary step, either before or right after the interview," says Monique Tatum, author of "Jumping Off the Curb and Into SEO Traffic." "A positive and strong online presence can play a tremendous part in the employer's first impression."

“Thirty-five percent of employers said that what they found caused them not to hire a candidate.”

"You're paying them to represent your company, and your reputation affects theirs. No company wants a newspaper headline with their name in it because of an embarrassing employee."

Can anyone relate?!

If you're curious about your online presence, then take a moment to google yourself!

I definitely have a relatable case – I will share my experience in the comment section of this post! Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

Pauleanna
xoxo

PS - Shannae has one too! And she will be sharing it in the comment section also ;D

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Fashion: Christian Louboutin Spring 2010 Collection

Ya'll know WWW is a fan of the "Red Bottoms". Heres a sneak peak of what Mr.Louboutin has in store for Spring 2010.

Below are Shay Shay's Favorites:

(Source)

And here are my faves:

Which ones do you like best??

Alyssa
xoxo

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Video: Leona Lewis - "I See You" (Avatar Soundtrack)

“I See You” (Theme from Avatar) by Leona Lewis in HD

Trailer Park | MySpace Video

Am I a huge fan of the song?? Not really. But you already know that LL has a special place in my heart...

PS - I heard that AVATAR is the truth!!

Shay
xo

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Fergie's Words...

Name: Stacy Ann Ferguson AKA "Fergie"

Age: 34

Zodiac: Aries

Fergie said: "I started doing Ecstasy. Then I got addicted to crystal methamphetamine. My weight dropped to 90lb. I lied to my friends and said I was bulimic. Finally I started going crazy. In that moment I talked to God and He said: `I`ve given you all these gifts, so what are you doing?` I decided to get clean. I told everybody what was wrong."

I say: I had no idea that Fergie battled and has recovered from a drug addiction. It makes me respect her accomplishments that much more. Are you at a point in your life where you feel it can't get any worse? Like things are soooo bad and there's no turning back? Well I just want to let you know that despite your circumstances. YOU can do and be ANYTHING you want to be. Starting NOW. Rid yourself of negativity NOW. Fill yourself with confidence to move forward now. Will it be easy? NO, but can you do it? HELL YAH...

If you need help and feel like you have nowhere to turn, feel free to reach out to me and I can put you in touch with someone who can help (shannae@ilovewhatwomenwant.com). Or you can visit this site for information.

Shay

xo

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Relationships: What every girl can learn from Michelle Obama...

I was reading this article about some of the misconceptions women have about finding "The One" and this passage struck me:

"Holding out for the perfect man, someone who is intellectual but not nerdy—cool but not arrogant—impeccably dressed but not effeminate—not a player but with just the right amount of edge—is USELESS. "

"Smart can go with a little nerdy. Artsy can be accompanied by off-beat. Ambitious and focused may mean less than a social butterfly. Yes, there was that one guy in law school who was easily 6’5’’, a Rhodes Scholar and a rapper with a baby face to top things off. I’m not saying it’s impossible, but please!"

I personally would have ended the last sentence with B!#@& please, lol, but you get the drift right?? So many of us (myself included) are doing the relationship thing ass backwards. When Michelle met Barack, he was the broke-pocket lawyer with big ears who was doing community service in Chicago. But Michelle saw him for who he was, she saw his potential and they built something amazing together... To me an organic relationship like that is a lot more powerful...

My girlfriend and I were talking about this the other night... Forget all of the hot shots! We are gonna start going for nerds!! lmao

Ladies what do you think??

Shay

xo

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Just love this dress...

Blaque Label White Lace Dress - $135

I would wear this winter AND summer... Ladies, what do you think?

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Rachel Uchitel's Words...

Name: Rachel Uchitel

Age: 34

Zodiac: Aquarius

Rachel said: "In every story, you need a villain and a hero. I’ve been characterized as a villain. People have called me homewrecker, gold digger, tramp, whore. I make mistakes, but I’m not those things. I have very good qualities."

I say: Do you ever empathize with the quote on quote villian? Are you able to find it within yourself to see "the other woman's" side of the story? I just feel like there are too many cheating men out there for there not to be a woman out there who can understand or empathize with "the other woman". My opinion? I'm going to share it with you in the comments... I don't want to bias anyone's answer with mine...

Ladies, I'd love to see your thoughts.

Shay

xo

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Travel: The 100 largest cities in the World

(Tokyo, Japan)
Traveling the World is very important to me, not just because of the wonderful experiences and the culture, but to me, its a form of education. I was sitting with some friends over the weekend and we were debating what the biggest cities in the World were by population... There were some obvious cities that topped the list, but there were also a few surprises...
Over time, I want to visit all of the 10 largest cities in the World, but in addition to that, I want to visit other places unique for their geography and culture - not just their population.
Here are the 10 largest cities in the World:

1. Tokyo, Japan - 28,025,000

2. Mexico City, Mexico - 18,131,000

3. Mumbai, India - 18,042,000

4. Sáo Paulo, Brazil - 17, 711,000

5. New York City, USA - 16,626,000

6. Shanghai, China - 14,173,000

7. Lagos, Nigeria - 13,488,000

8. Los Angeles, USA - 13,129,000

9. Calcutta, India - 12,900,000

10. Buenos Aires, Argentina - 12,431,000

My surprises? Lagos, Nigeria and Los Angeles, California - I knew those cities were big, but not top 10 in the World big - Especially LA! FYI - Toronto was number 50 on the list... I wasn't surprised by that at all... lol
For those that are so inclined you can check out the full list of the 100 biggest cities here.
Where have you been on the list and where do you think I should try to visit first? I wanna go to Tokyo!
Shay xo

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I MISS MUSIC: Martika - Toy Soldiers..

Martika - Toy Soldiers
by Tunashaker

This song takes me back to grade school... I remember thinking... when I'm older, I'm gonna dress like that, lace shirt higt waisted distressed denim - and red lips... Wow... I can't believe its been 20 years!!

Anyway, please enjoy and share the nostalgic memories this brings out (if any)...

Shay

xo

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VIDEO Teaser: Rihanna "HARD"

I have to admit, this song has grown on me, ladies, is the feeling mutual?

Shay

xo

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Relationships: Does height matter?

I feel like there are so many "unspoken" relationship rules that affect who you do or don't and should or shouldn't date. One of those cardinal rules is height - women tend to go for a guy who's at the very least the same height or taller than them...

Me? I used be one of those girls who was like - If you aren't at least 6 feet DON'T TALK TO ME lol... Why? Probably because I was immature and all of my african american relationship references were couples like Will and Jada, Grant Hill and Tamia etc. etc. But after splitting from my long term BF (who was 6'3"), I decided to give short guys a chance... and you know what it was cool! I rocked flats with the first short guy that I dated, so it wouldn't look weird, but then platforms and 5 inch heels became the lick and there was no way that I was gonna sit out on that trend so I rocked my heels whether the dude was short or not... and you know what? I didn't care...

I have some friends who would NEVER... others who don't care and the rest would prefer someone tall but would be willing to date a short dude if the connection was there... What about you? Is a short guy a deal breaker?

Lemme know!

Shay

xo

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Sex and The City 2 Poster Revealed...

I spent the whole weekend watching SATC reruns... not knowing that THIS was going to be revealed... How serendipitous!!

I can't wait!!

Shay xo

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Bootie Call... Do you like?

I kinda like them.... Do you?

PS - they're bcbg mendel booties