Girls are socialized to smile more than boys. When men don't smile, they're taken seriously... When women don't smile, we're asked "What's Wrong" or labelled as a bitch...
This is one of my BIGGEST issues... I feel like people don't take me seriously because I am smiley smiley with everyone, causing me to be underestimated or not taken seriously... My advice?? In professional situations bring out your VICTORIA BECKHAM swag... Honestly, if you want people to think you're a force to be reckoned with, that's what you have to do... But then when you are with your friends and fam and the ones you love, just be you, and if that means you are smiling from ear to ear then GO FOR IT! It will honestly pay off... A family member of mine was actually a body guard for the Beckhams and I asked him, does Victoria ever smile and is she nice? And he was like YEAH!! She is the sweetest thing ever, but her pearly whites would only surface when she was in the comfort and privacy of her fam..
Some Tips:
- Pay more attention to when you are smiling (is it warranted??)
- Match your facial expression to your message... (it seems like common sense but a lot of people fail to do this!
- Before delivering serious messages, rehearse in front of a mirror. This will help you to determine, when/if you are smiling inappropriately
- DON'T QUIT SMILING ENTIRELY!! Duh!! lol... Smiling contributes to your likability quotient and likability is a critical factor to achieving success!
Have a great Thursday ladies!! xoxo
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