Life Lessons from Fantasia

I watched the season that Fantasia won. I loved her from DAY 1! After seeing her first performance, I said to myself, even if she doesn't win, someone will scoop her!! Her voice is so unique and she is so passionate! How many times did we see Fantasia fall to her knees or cry singing a rendition of another's song much less her own? Someone with that kind of heart is perfect for the role of Cellie of 'The Color Purple' - one of my favorite movies!!!

All that said, I have to also admit that there were many times that I saw her and I think now after watching this clip that I wrongly judged her behavior/appearance. I truly chopped her up as a ghetto girl who don't know how to act (I know I'm terrible). I don't know how many examples I need in life to not judge a book my its cover but, this was another one.

Another part of this video that really struck a nerve was this:

"A woman without a high school diploma, who's success has almost been solely based on her ability to sing!"

Based on Fantasia's interview it seems as though she was riding the Blessed wave of success but despite that was able to humble herself and go back to school. I wonder if those throat tumors were a reminder that there was still something that she needed to do for herself before her singing could take her to the top.

It really is never too late and I admire her for being able to take a few steps back before going forward. We have not seen her peek yet, I feel it coming.

CONGRATS FANTASIA!!!

LaToya

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I MISS MUSIC: Zhané

Hey y'all, I MISS MUSIC is going to be a new category that will be apart of the WWW blog... I had to do something new, HAD TO. I don't know about you but, I feel so uninspired with that is new and poppin these days. I might be looking in all the wrong places. But, I have tried! I have searched high and low. I have even put up a few facebook statuses in hopes that someone could lead me in the right direction. My girl Lovelyn told me to "go back to the old school". I took her advice and I have SO MUCH TO SHARE.

I will continue to post on new music, but I really hope you guys like the "throw backs" that I have in store because I'm really going to enjoy it, lol.





I love these ladies... I actually thought of naming my daughter Zhané (pronounced Jah-Nay). I love you to death sis but, it was too close to my sister's name ;o).

This is music! I feel every word, every whispered adlib...

Re-introducing La, la, la - Zhané

I miss music!

Stay Bless,

LaToya

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My words...

Name: Shannae Ingleton

Age: 28

Zodiac: Pisces

My words: "Don't follow your dreams... Chase them..."

I say: First off, these aren't actually my words... I saw them somewhere a while ago and couldn't find "the originator"... Kindly share if you know the source. But that's besides the point. Following your dreams isn't enough - Not only does success not come to those who wait, it also doesn't come to those who go through the motions... You gotta chase it, grind it out every day. A relentless pursuit. The truth is, you know this, I know this; we all know this. But do you really have what it takes?

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New Video: The One Mary J Blige feat. Drake

I first got word of this video release on DJ Lissa Monét's blog and I'm so glad I did!

Mary J. can do no wrong. I love the video. Gear is tight, especially that link necklace! The dancing took me back... And last but not least SHOUT OUT TO DRIZZY! This man is all over the globe. Keep doing your thang!

Enjoy,

LaToya

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Harriet Tubman's words...

Name: Harriet Tubman (born Araminta Ross)

Age: 1822-1913 she lived till about 90 years of age - that is a blessed woman!

Zodiac: Not sure but, I wish I knew

Harriet said: "I freed thousand slaves, I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves".

Latoya says: I know you all are used to hearing from Shannae on this topic but, I ran into this quote and I felt the need to touch on it. I hope you all appreciate what I'm trying to say her because I believe this is such a beautiful life message.

If only all of humanity truly believed... With more self knowledge, humility, and understanding of the circumstances that surround our situations, anything is possible. We may have a part of us that is weak, that we want to make strong, or things that we don't understand but should know. Sometimes it's the small unknowns that keep us from our true ascension. Harriet Tubman freed 1000 slaves and could have freed double if only ignorance wasn't bliss for some many.

We all have a slave in us that can be easily freed with the tools (aka Underground Railroad) that we have today. Not only did she risk her life for herself, she risked her life time and time again for others. We on the other hand face no threat, or danger in learning! In fact what we need a lot of the time is right at our finger tips.

This quote is coming from a female that was born into slavery and chased after something that was completely unknown to her, FREEDOM. Born to believe that her birth rite was all she deserved, she fought! She didn't live differently but, she knew there could be a different life! She BELIEVED, she had a DREAM, and she didn't sleep on her dream she made it her REALITY! What is our excuse?

Knowledge is power people!

Stay bless,

LaToya

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Music: Mariah Carey - I Wanna Know What Love is...

First off, I have to apologize to my sister for usurping her and posting this before she had a chance to. The song had such an impact, that I honestly couldn't wait! LaToya sent this to me last night and for me it was love at first sound! I know that the song is old and maybe its also because I am feeling really EMO right now, but I just LOVE THIS! Its been on repeat all night and it was the first thing I started playing when I woke up this morning...

In my life there's been heartache and pain

I don't know if I can face it again

I cant stop now, Ive traveled so far

To change this lonely life

I feel like the lyrics are really speaking to me... not just about romantic love, but love of myself and true love and appreciation of life and family... Its a daily struggle, but its one that I know all of us deal with... This song is a beautiful reminder that when it comes to the journey of true love, you can't stop now, you've traveled so far...

Have a beautiful day everyone...

xoxo

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Music Post: Superbad by Adrienne Bailon

I listened to the song and I kept looking at the pic... I knew I recognized her! Looks like she has dropped the bubblegum, lollipop act. This Cheetah Girl has decided to go solo. I have to admit that I am not really feelin this track but, you all should judge for yourselves.

Stay Bless,

LaToya

Shannae sez: I actually kinda like it! I look forward to seeing the video!! Her body is BANGIN!

xoxo

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Fashion: I love Zara!!

One of my favorite places to shop of all time is ZARA!!
You can get designer silhouettes for NON-Designer prices and their shoe game is on point!!
We all know its a recession, so it was no surprise when I learned via Red Carpet Fashion Awards that Ciara and Aubrey O'day recently rocked Zara for an US Weekly photoshoot and on the Red Carpet! I'm loving the Balmain inspired dress that Aubrey is wearing...

While browsing the site, I also found these cute pieces shown above... I dunno, I've been trying not to spend lately, but I think I'm gonna have to make a quick trip today to pick up some fall essentials! ZARA is the TRUTH!

Toodles!

xoxo

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Ellen's words...

Name: Ellen DeGeneres

Age: 51

Zodiac: Sagittarius

Ellen said: “My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She's ninety-seven now, and we don't know where the hell she is.”

I say: Its never too late to pursue your dreams... Age is really nothing but a number and coaxes so many of us into thinking that "we can't". You wanna go back to school and you're 40??? Do it!! You've got more than half your life ahead of you! And take Ellen D for example, her career didnt' start to take off until her late 30s and after she announced to the World that she was gay, she couldn't find a job until she landed her talk show... Keep truckin, never give up and its NEVER TOO LATE!

PS - How can anyone not love Ellen! She is such an amazing ball of positive energy!!

Shay xoxo

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Interesting: What all Women can Learn from Amber Rose

Hey Ladies!! I saw this on Global Grind and I thought that I'd share... There are some things in this that I agree with and some that I disagree with... I'll chime into the comments section in a bit... I wanna hear your thoughts too!

THE ARTICLE;

It’s AMBER ROSE for the win.

When I first saw [these pictures] of Amber and her boo KANYE WEST poolside in Miami, I couldn’t help but laugh. That girl stays winning. ‘Winning what?’ you ask? Kanye.

Say what you will about Amber but one things for sure, in the game of dating, she knows how to play it. And we’re going to tell you why. Now, keep in mind, every couple is different. And most of us aren’t dating a very eccentric high-profile, musical master-mind. But there’s some things that – in perhaps much more subtle ways – all women could stand to learn (or at least be reminded) from Amber Rose....

5. She’s not afraid to be different – Be honest, what’s the first thing you thought when you first saw the blonde, bald head? It’s jarring. It’s unexpected. And it works. Why? Cause she owns it. There’s only one thing worst than someone who’s afraid to go against the grain – and that’s someone who goes against the grain filled with nothing but fear. Confidence is everything, it’s the difference between failing at a trend, and setting a trend.

4. So far she sticks to what she does best - Not everybody can do everything. Amber is a model. She looks beautiful, shes got a great sense of style and she appears at home in the spotlight. I could see her hosting a show on fashion and style. I could even see her playing a vixen in an urban romantic comedy…I could not, however, see her debating policy on Capital Hill. Figure out what your strength and weaknesses are, then learn, grow and strive within them. Of course try things out of your box – but be realistic. Cause knowing who you are is absolutely fly!

3. She’s seen and not heard – So what if she’s arm candy? She’s beautiful. Does that mean she’s not intelligent? Not in the least. What is does mean is that Amber knows how to play different roles. There’s nothing worse than watching (or doing) a red carpet interview, and the virtually unknown girlfriend of the celeb is doing all the talking – as if we care about what she has to say. Now most women won’t find themselves in red carpet situations but the next time it’s your mans time to shine remember this: True strength doesn’t need to be proven…And let him shine.

2. She’s a walking erogenous zone – Have you ever seen an interview with this girl? The licking of the lips? The vapid stare? Everything about her screams sex…Now, most of us ladies won’t – and shouldn’t – walk around in a string bikini. But ask yourself, how sexy are you? If you were your man right now, would you want to ravage yourself? Ok, ok, most of you are at work, where there really shouldn’t be any ravaging going on (unless you’re Allie Incredible), but how about when you’re at home? Men are visceral creatures. Keep it sexy and you’ll notice the difference.

1. She’s ‘Team Ye’ all the way – If Kanye asked her to walk nude down the White House lawn carrying a torch, I believe she just might do it. Now I’m not saying that all women should do everything their man tells them – cause I wouldn’t do eveything a man tells me. But there’s something to be admired about a woman who is down to ride for her man. Even if every now and then, he asks something crazy.

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Assana's Words...

Name: Assana McDonald

Zodiac: Sagittarius!

Assana said: "Challenges lead to Change"

I say: Assana, her BF Akilah and I did dinner a little while ago... It had been forever since I had done "Dinner" with the girls and I realized that I need to do more of that!! But keeping with "Girls Doing Dinner" tradition we talked about all life's topics; life, love, career, people, family relationships, marriage and our future... We kept it 100 with each other about changes that we thought each of us needed to make and also gave each other the confidence to know that "we could do it!!!" In any event, I felt empowered after the dinner to make some changes, forgetting that I may have invoked change in the other girls, so when I saw that Assana's BBM status wash "Challenges lead to change... thx Shannae" I felt flattered, but she doesn't know that she also inspired me!! This is my way of letting her know that. In fact, all of us challenged each other at that dinner table and it invoked thought and change in all of us...

Anyway, the moral of the story is, try to consider feedback from others that you trust. They want the best for you and can often see things that have become invisible to you!

Enjoy your day!

Shay xoxo

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Aaliyah's words...

Name: Aaliyah Dana Haughton

Age: January 16, 1979 to August 25, 2001 (Died at age 22)

Zodiac: Capricorn

Aaliyah said: "I want people to remember me as a full on entertainer and a good person."

I say: I think that Aaliyah got her wish because I remember her as that and much much more... and while you are here, ask yourself the same thing... If God were to take you RIGHT NOW. How would people remember you??? What do you think that they would say?? I think about that all the time...

On another note: I can't believe that its been 8 years... I still remember exactly where I was when I heard that she was gone... Do you?

RIP Aaliyah...

Shay xoxo

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Music and Movie Post: I Can Do Bad All By Myself

Check out the song that Mary did for the "I Can Do Bad All By Myself" Soundtrack:

Mary also does a bit of acting in the movie along with Oscar nominated Taraji P Henson and Gladys Knight. Check out the trailer below:

I saw a glimpse of Gladys doing her thing here as well. I love movies like this! They are the type that you can sit at home and watch with the fam and you feel like you've learned a lesson at the end!

The Soundtrack is going to be great!

Enjoy,

LaToya

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Fashion: Thigh High Boots

They re-emerged in '08 and guess what? Thigh high boots are still a must-have this Fall!

They've been featured in almost all of the runway shows for Fall/Winter 09. Not only are they super stylish but they'll keep your legs warm as the seasons start to change. I say its an essential piece to add to your shoe collection. My fav has to be the slouchy boots from Chloe and the black patent boots from Louis Vuitton (See Above)

BEBE $159/ Chloe $1,248/ Jimmy Choo $1,491

Alyssa
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Queen Latifah's Words...

Name: Queen Latifah AKA Dana Elaine Owens

Age: 39

Zodiac: Pisces!!

Queen Latifah said: "There’s still plenty to do. I think I’ll never run out of things to accomplish, as long as I’m alive, because there’s so much to learn, and so much to do. I always feel like I have so much further to go, personally, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically."

I say: I always seem to forget to push myself... I'll accomplish a goal and sort of dwell on that accomplishment, forgetting that there is still a long way to go in this journey that we call life and the pursuit of success and happiness. It can be hard at times, but when you've pushed yourself to the limit in different situations you can be satisfied that you are realizing your full potential and you're giving it all you've got. And when you do that, the SKY is the limit to what you can achieve!!

I am already working on my next life achievement! What about you??

Shay
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New Video: Stronger by Mary J. Blige

This video is part of the upcoming soundtrack for Lebron's 'More Than A Game' movie which is rumored to show the beginning of October...

I love the song but, honestly, I'm not too crazy about the video.

Watch the video HERE

Stay Bless,

LaToya

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WWW talks about Anxiety...

My experience with Anxiety:

About 4 years ago, I was walking in the mall, window shopping, chilling and minding my own business when out of no where my heart started pounding like crazy, I felt like I couldn't breath and I literally thought that I was going to DIE. I ran into the nearest store (which happened to be a Shoppers Drug Mart) and screamed "Somebody Help Me! There is something wrong with me!! I can't breath!!" So naturally, everyone stopped dead in their tracks and just looked at me like I was crazy because obviously I could breathe considering I had just screamed for help... Anyway, no one in the store did anything to help me and I made my way to the back of the store found the employee washroom and calmed myself down after splashing water on my face and walked out of the store in embarrassment as everyone stared at me.

That was the first of a series of panic attacks that I experienced over the course of the next several weeks...

I went to a Doctor immediately after the episode and he told me that I had experienced a panic attack. I looked at him like he was crazy and told him to give me every test in the book because it must be a heart defect or MS or some sort of disease because I was convinced that stress couldn't do this to me. So he did and all of the tests came back fine. I refused to believe the doctor, so I went to the hospital told them my story, did the same tests and they told them the same thing... I swear I visited the Doctor a dozen times over the next 2 months because I didn't believe it was stress.... But now that I look back, I think to myself: How could I not think it was stress!

I was working two jobs, I had just purchased a condo (that I could barely afford at the time), was having problems with my parents and was arguing with and cutting off friends left right and center because I felt like I couldn't trust anyone. But because I had always had a million things on the go my whole life, I had just accepted the fact that stress was a normal part of life.

NOT!! Stress works in mysterious ways... it accumulates in your system and one day it will just decide to release itself, it could be in the form of disease and discomfort (headaches, flu, fever or even cancer) and in my case it released itself as a panic attack...

How did I overcome my situation?? Well my doctor suggested medication and because I didn't know about alternatives, I decided to take it.... He prescribed ATIVAN a drug commonly used to control anxiety... I took the pills and it basically turned me into a zombie and even worse it caused me to hallucinate (I was hearing laughing Hyenas!! lol)... so I never took the drugs again and found ways to work through the stress on my own. (PS - I am neither for nor against taking drugs to remedy these types of things, but they just didn't work for me).

After the drugs didn't work:

I quit my second job...

Started doing Yoga, Running and got more physically active...

I stopped caring about stupid things that didn't matter (i.e. pressures at work etc, if some girl I didn't know didn't like me, or if some dude cut me off on the highway - WHO CARES!!.)

But most importantly I started enjoying life (travelling, spending time with my fam) AND I started What Women Want!

I am happy that I went through what I went through because so many positive and rewarding changes came into my life as a result of that wake-up call.

I obviously still get stressed out all of the time, but I try not to ever let anything bother me too much. I haven't had another another anxiety attack, probably because I know in my head that I will always be fine at the end of the day and that the most important things in life are family, God and being good to others....

I know that this blog is a bit more deep than the others that I do, but I know that I am not the only one to have experienced something like this, so I hope that I can help other women (and men) out there that may have gone through the same thing...

I'd love to hear your experiences if you would like to share. I have learned so much and gained a lot of confidence from the insight that ladies have given me in the comment section over time. Feel free to use the Anonymous option!

Have a great weekend!

Shay xoxo

PS: If you liked this blog you may also like the blogs that we did on

DEPRESSION: http://ilovewhatwomenwant.blogspot.com/2009/01/guest-blog-by-latoya-ingleton-capella.html and;

ADDICTION: http://ilovewhatwomenwant.blogspot.com/2008/12/addiction.html

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New Music: Slow Love, Beyonce

slow love - beyonce

Another *leak* from Beyonce. I'm not sure how I feel about this track yet. Let me know how you all feel.

Stay Bless,

LaToya

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My favorite looks this week! The all Black Edition!

Source & Source

So I was very uninspired by most of the things that I saw on blogs and the red carpet this week... but the ladies that did catch my eye were donning all black... Maybe I was biased because I'm looking forward to moving into a new season and Fall is one of my faves! I can't believe that Summer is almost over!!!

So what do you think of Nia Long in her belted Tulip Dress, Amber in her all black high waisted skinnies and cropped blouse, and Cassie in her Jumpsuit and platform boots... I must say, Cassie's hairstyle is most definitely growing on me... and IMO she takes the cake out of all of the looks above... Does she have an album coming out???

Have a great weekend!

Shay

xoxo

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Raggamuffin by Selah Sue

Shout outs to Coco&Lowe for posting this piece right here. I don't think I would have ever come across this talent with out your help - Bless...

She doesn't look like a person that would have the title 'Raggamuffin' for any song she may have written. There I go judging a book again, lol. But, honestly...

Regardless, it's a great track. I think you guys have gotten the idea that I love love guitarists! That made this song very easy to listen to. The chords also remind me of a Lauryn song from her unplugged album. I listened to a few other of her songs on youtube and Selah Sue is definitely WWW.

Enjoy,

LaToya

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Take Away Love, LeToya ft. Estelle

Bwoy, all I can say is I can RELATE! The worst kinda dude to deal with is one that can't take a hint!

Fellas, please know when to step. There is nothing more annoying and you can end up losing a good friend that just wasn't meant to be your lover.

P.S - I just love how Estelle brings her Yard vibe, everytime!

Stay Bless,

LaToya

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Events: Jamie Foxx helps launch LG Life's Good Filmfest in Style!

Last week, WWW intern Alyssa and I were invited to see Award-winning actor Jamie Foxx in full effect as he helped launch LG Life's Good Filmfest...

The event took place inside of Panorama Restaurant on the 51st floor of the Manulife Center and Jamie sat down and talked about upcoming projects as well as how he got started in the business...

The Panorama...

Me trying to blend in with the Media...

Jamie being, well, Jamie lol ;D

Me and Jamie!

Check out the video below!

The Ladies of What Women Want meet Jamie Foxx! from Shannae Ingleton on Vimeo.

PS - the person talking in the video WAS NOT me it was this really annoying Journalist beside us that wouldn't leave Jamie alone! She almost jumped him after the press conference to get a photo, but guess who got the photo instead??? *wink wink* lol

It pays to be polite!

PPS - A big shout out goes out to Alyssa for holding me down that day! You rock the house and I appreciate you!!

xoxo

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Tanya's Cascilla's Words...

Name: Tanya Cascilla

Age: 25

Zodiac: Virgo

Tanya Said: "I'm not the personal U want me to be, I'm the person I want to be."

I say: Well put T!! T is one of my besties and always has the most funny, witty sayings about love, life and relationships... Throughout my life I've struggled with trying to please family, people at work, roommates, you name it... but Tanya couldn't have said it better, you are only gonna do and be what you want to, and people just have to accept it...

Shay

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New Video: RUN THIS TOWN

F

NUFF SAID!!!

Enjoy,

LaToya

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New Music: Salute by Whitney Houston

'I'm a soilder girl, in my world...SALUTE' I love the message!

Sounds like she is on her way back!

Stay Bless my peeps,

LaToya

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Halle Berry's Words...

Name: Halle Berry

Age: 43 (Daaaaaaaaamn she looks so good!!)

Zodiac: Leo (Happy belated!)

Halle said: "I think it's always best to be who you are."

I say: This is so much easier said than done and I'm actually going through this right now... Some of you might know that I recently moved into a new place! I love the place and I loooove the neighbourhood. What I didn't say is that I have a roommate at this new place and we found each other on Craigslist! She's in her mid 20s, she's really sweet, she's a Teacher and she's Italian! We clicked really well when we met and Its been great living with each other so far. Last night we had a really good heart to heart and talked about work, relationships and life in general. I confessed to her that I was acting prim and proper around her because I didn't want her to get the wrong impression of me. But the truth is, I have so many layers to my personality. There are some aspects of me that are ditzy giggly valley girl, but depending on the time and place, I can also turn into Shannae-nae from the block, there is my Corporate Miss Shannae Ingleton side and I have a really emotional, sensitive and needy side too. I think that my roommate saw all of those layers of my personality yesterday and she didn't say it, but she knew she was getting the real me and she liked me even more for it... Like Halle said, just be yourself, its who you are so why not? People may not necessarily always love you to bits and pieces for being yourself, but they will respect you for it and at the end of the day, that's all you need and that's all that matters.

I'll keep you posted on how things go with my new roommie!!

Shay

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New Video: Number One, R. Keri BABY - OFFICIAL VIDEO

I know I told you all to stay tuned but this was a bit quicker than I had imagined, lol.

Anywayz, the video is a bit typical but, mi likey!

Enjoy!

LaToya

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Fashion: Floral Dresses

Summer is still sizzling and floral frocks are ideal summer attire. If you haven't got one, now is a great time to buy one. End of season sales are crazy right now- and don't worry, florals will still be fab next year. Don't believe me? Take a look at the Resort 2010 for Stella McCartney, Marc Jacobs and Balenciaga...

PS - you can get Rih Rih's Floral Jumper for only $187 on Shop Bop!!

I liked the variation of the use of florals throughout the collection but the bedazzled jersey quarter sleeve dress has to be my fav!

MJ never ceases to amaze me. I think the one shoulder pink and black floral printed dress will be the crowd favourite next year.

If you love the volume and drama that Balenciana put into their floral frocks but hate the price tag, get a similar look with a tiered dress from Urban Outfitters for under $100!

Urban Outfitters MINKPINK Tiered Floral Dress $98/ Cupcake Tiered Floral Dress $88



STEAL! As I said, end of season sales are crazy! This Rose Tank Knit Dress is only $15.80 at Forever21. They're practically giving this stuff away!

Alyssa
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Zoe Saldana's Words...

Name: Zoe Saldana

Age: 31

Zodiac: Gemeni

Zoe Said: "Being a former dancer, classical dancer, it informed me as a human being just in terms of the grace I guess. Ballet is a very graceful form of art. You also become very aware of your body and your mind and your body is working in conjunction. That kind of helps you in acting as well. It’s not only using your mind, it’s like making your mind communicate this character into your body so that you can bring it to life and physicalize it."

I say: My GF Zineb and I want to take hip hop dancing classes and I also want to play indoor soccer this fall, because I am soooooo uncoordinated... my friends call me all kinds of names on the dance floor because I have NOOOOO rhythm whatsoever.... I really want to be coordinated though and it has been one of my silent "insecurities" for a long time, not only because I'll be able to bust a move on the dance floor, but because I've heard of all of the other wonderful benefits in life that come along with hand-eye coordination and body-mind coordination... Grace, confidence, poise, posture and I've heard it even affects you in to study and absorb large amounts of information because your brain is a muscle and the more you work it, the better it works!!

What sort of things do you do to work your brain??

Shay xoxo

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Music Video: Number One R. Kelly ft. Keri Hilson

Ok, I know our blog is about the ladies but our girl Keri Baby is on this track and yo... R. Kelly is the ish! He has a way of making you feel like you are actually experiencing what he singing about.

Anyway, I love love love what Keri is wearing in the video. There are rarely times that I do not like what she has on as a matter a fact!

Looks like it was a fun video to make. Stay tuned to see the entire video once it's released and in the meantime you can listen to the full song here!

Stay Blessed,

LaToya

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Madonna's Words...

Name: Madonna

Age: 51 - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE BADDEST BITCH IN THE GAME!!!! XOXOXOXO

Zodiac: Leo!!!

Madonna said: "Everybody loves you when they are about to cum"

I say: That is very true in the literal sense of that quote, but on a metaphorical level I feel like Madonna's quote represents the people that LOVE you when things are good, but they are nowhere to be found when things aren't going so well or if they can't use you for anything... One thing that I have to say about that is this: When people tell you who they are, listen THE FIRST time (Oprah's words)... You don't necessarily have to cut people like that off, but be aware of what they are about, don't expect anything from them and maybe you can even play them at their own game and use them too.... When they stop coming around all of a sudden, don't take it personal, cuz HEY, you already knew what was up... But when they try and come back around after you've made it through your tough patch, be sure to tell them where to go and how to get there...

On a side note: I love Madonna! She is such an inspiration to me!!! In her famous words "she stands for freedom of expression, doing what you believe in and going after your dreams" She is such a trail blazer and I can't imagine what this World would be like without her...

Ladies... thoughts???

Shay xoxo

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Music Post: Kissed From a Rose, Jazmine Sullivan's Version

Jazzy does Seal and does it well in my opinion! She keeps my she hopefully in a time where I feel that REAL music is endangered. Versatile beyond belief!

I hope you all enjoy it!

Stay Bless...

LaToya

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My favorite looks this week! The HAIR Edition!!

This week, media darlings Kim Kardashian and Solange Knowles decided to dawn new 'do's for the public and guess what? I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THEIR LOOKS. First off, because making a drastic change like that is symbolic in so many ways and often times represents shedding baggage or starting a new chapter in life. But for others it is just a bold move and I am inspired when I see things like that (maybe because I don't have the guts to do it myself!)...

A shout out goes out to WWW's in house music correspondent (my sister) LaToya for doing the same! She shed her dreads a few weeks back after years of growing them. Who knows, maybe she'll give me permission to post before and after pics and you all can chime in with your beauty verdicts??

So how do you think that Kim K and Solange K did with their new looks?? IMO? A+++!!

Have a great weekend guys!!

Shay xoxo

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